Self development is like riding a bicycle: Little hills are easy to cross if you got some momentum. If you loose too much momentum however, you need to shift down or you may even need to get off your bike and push it to the top of the hill. At the cost of some valuable time.
No matter it can be physically demanding to always keep your momentum but you reach your goals much faster if you do. Plus, it’s somewhat more pleasant to feel the fresh air pressing against you.
Unfortunately, there are neither mental pedals nor mental feet you could pedal with. So building mental momentum differs a little from building speed on a bike. But just a little.
Let’s see how building mental momentum actually works:
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Tags: bicycle, goals, momentum, motivation, movement, Self Development
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Oversleeping and wasting time drowsing are common problems most of us face regularly. Well, you can get out of bed as soon as your alarm rings. Every single day. It doesn’t even have to be very hard to do so. All you need is the will to do it and some self-discipline.
Why People Oversleep
There are some different reasons for oversleeping and staying in bed for too long:
- Not hearing the alarm ring: What can I say about this one? Actually, the solution is kinda easy in this case: Get a louder alarm clock! If you regularly miss your alarm you should change something about it.
- Drugs: I don’t want to talk a lot about this point as it’s pretty obvious. If you’re too drunk to stand up, how do you think you could get out of bed on time? Same applies to some other drugs. Just don’t do drugs if you want to wake up at a precise time the following day. (Drinking a lot of coffee can have negative effects on your sleep as well.)
- Tricking yourself to stay in bed: This is where it starts to get interesting. And basically, that’s the point this article really is about. The problem with it is: This sort of tricking yourself has become a habit for most of us. Especially on weekends. You’re giving away valuable time this way. Solving this problem takes some time as you will have to replace the habit of tricking yourself to stay in bed by the habit of getting out of bed as soon as your alarm rings.
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Tags: alarm clock, drowsiness, drugs, habit replacement, habits, motivation, oversleeping, sleep
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January 18th, 2010
Posted by Trey Walter
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Role modeling is a very effective method for self improvement. If – and only if – it is done the right way.
I know, some people won’t acknowledge that. Maybe you’re one of those people. Maybe you think of role modeling as childish or you think it’s a method only weak people use. In fact, it’s none of the kind.
What not to do
It’s probably true that a lot of weak people got some kind of role models. And they might aim at becoming like their superstars, but trying to become like your role models is not what you should do. Here’s why:
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Tags: common characters, habits, role modeling, role models, success
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You can become more self-confident by adjusting your body language. That’s a fact.
Your feelings influence your body language and your body language influences your feelings. It works both ways. It’s just that most people are not aware of the second way, of the way I’ll discuss here. What a pity! They’re missing a valuable opportunity to have a conscious effect on their subconsciousness!
Today I experienced this direct relationship when I was playing around with my own body language while walking to the train station. I decided to increase the range of my arms’ swing. Just a little. Maybe 1-2 inches into either direction.
Strangely enough, it did have a noticeable effect on my feelings: I did feel like I got more energy. Like I was more outgoing, more self-confident.
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Tags: Body Language, feelings, self-confidence, walking
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Did you read my article The Basics of Memory Improvement yet? Although it’s not essential to understand the text below, I do recommend reading it first.
Let’s face it, most people are horrible bad at remembering numbers. You probably know the struggle of remembering phone numbers or historical dates. Fortunately you can easily improve your memory for numbers. You don’t even need any special genes to do that.
In fact, remembering numbers can be pretty easy if you know how to do it. And I’ll tell you how to do it. Ain’t that great? Yeah, but hold back. The best technique is of little use if you don’t practice using it. And you will need to practice to make this technique effective. That’s the point where most people quit. Don’t be like that.
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Tags: converting, memorization, memory, numbers, phonetic alphabet
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January 10th, 2010
Posted by Trey Walter
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You can convert anything into words and most words can be imagined (i.e. be converted to a mental image) with no effort. Additionally, human beings use to communicate by using language. Well, this should be reason enough for you to learn how to memorize words efficiently. If it’s not, you might want to take into consideration rereading the first two sentences of this article.
If you read through my other article The Basics of Memory Improvement you should know a bit about the basics of memory improvement. At least I hope so. I’ll skip these basics here and just list the techniques.
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Tags: exaggeration, humor, imagination, memorization, memory, remembering, words
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The year 2010 has arrived! And I feel that it will bring a lot of change. For me and for you.
So why do I think that 2010 will be a special year? It’s the number. Somehow there seems to be a symbolic value behind it that encourages people to tackle their problems and take a step towards reaching their goals. “2010″ just sounds like the perfect opportunity to me. I expect quite a lot of people to take that opportunity and do something about their lifes.
I got some plans myself. You know, I started doing all that self development stuff about half a year ago. And I already improved in many areas of my life. For me, 2010 will be the time to blow up my remaining limits. Setting me free.
It already begun. I’m adapting to the everyman sleep schedule right now. This means I’ll probably sleep only 4 hours a day from now on. Having all that extra time, I feel like it’s the perfect time to do some more changes.
Oh yeah, I’m looking forward towards all those pleasant moments of the new year that are yet to come. And you should do so as well. Start the year with a positive attitude to boost your success. And maintain that attitude.
Set the additional new year resolution of staying motivated all the year long. It’s not too late so set this resolution. Set it and let the year 2010 motivate you. The time has come to finally reach your goals.
Tags: 2010, change, resolution, Self Development, success, year
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