Posts Tagged ‘goals’

Does your definition of being perfect include looking perfect? If the answer to this question is yes, then I have another question for you: What’s the perfect look? Try to answer that question and you might end up confused.

Almost all kinds of perfectionism include some definition of looking perfect and there are some different approaches to describe perfect looks. I’ll explain some of them to help you finding the definition you want to use for yourself. Take a look at these:

1. Comparison with other persons. This one is bad. And very common at the same time. A lot of people take the looks of a famous model or actor and start trying to look the same. Or wanting to look the same, as they don’t know how to come closer to this goal. The truth is that you are another person. And so you will always look different. (more…)

Self development is like riding a bicycle: Little hills are easy to cross if you got some momentum. If you loose too much momentum however, you need to shift down or you may even need to get off your bike and push it to the top of the hill. At the cost of some valuable time.

No matter it can be physically demanding to always keep your momentum but you reach your goals much faster if you do. Plus, it’s somewhat more pleasant to feel the fresh air pressing against you.

Unfortunately, there are neither mental pedals nor mental feet you could pedal with. So building mental momentum differs a little from building speed on a bike. But just a little.

Let’s see how building mental momentum actually works:
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I’m sitting on a comfortable sofa in a far away room. Wealth, happiness and wisdom are sitting next to me. I’m carefully observing these three goals.

Wealth stands up. It steps forward and looks at me. Then it starts talking:

“You’re allowed to choose one of us. But only one of us. You should choose me! I’ll make you powerful and happy. Don’t waste your chance, don’t go for happiness. Don’t choose wisdom either. Wisdom is unnecessary once you’re rich and happy.”
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This article is for those who already set their goals and wrote them down. Yeah, or how would you teach people how to reach goals that don’t exist? If you don’t know your destination it’s hard for you to notice your arrival. If you ever arrive at all.

So if aimless travelling is not what this article is about, then what are you supposed to learn here? This article will tell you some powerful tips. Tips on how to increase your rate of success, how to stay motivated and how to maintain a sharp focus, tips ready for use. Here they are:
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After having written an article about effective goal setting, I felt the time was just right to set some new goals for myself. And so I did. I tried to apply the very same techniques that I described previously. Let’s check out their real efficiency.

I truly believe in the practival value of the techniques so I’ll reveal some of my own long-term goals now. I’ll prove the effectiveness of goal setting. You can follow my blog and watch the progress.

So here they are, my personal goals:
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Setting goals is an effective way of boosting your success. Goals give direction to your life. They serve as a help to focus, they are the ladder that helps you to climb up to your dreams. A ladder you yourself have to built on your own. Don’t risk falling down by building a poor one! But don’t be afraid of building one either, I’ll give you the ladder building manual. And once you started climbing you will love it! Every successful step will feel great! What about unsuccessful steps? If you built a solid ladder, they won’t get you down, unless you give up. But the ladder itself will be so appealing that it will be hard for you to give up. Harder than you might think.

So let’s finally set up some goals!
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